Nicholas news
As Nicholas announced at Vulkon's Cleveland Slayercon Sunday, he has chosen to seek treatment for alcoholism.
Nick created a wonderful character in Xander, and he was one of the main reasons i loved BtVS so much. Despite Xander's comedy, he had an emotional maturity that often went under apprieciated. This obviously shone through from Nick.
Alcohol is a tricky thing and I've had dealings with its dark side. It takes a lot more guts to step up and face it than it does just to have another a drink.
So fair play Nick, my thoughts are with you and hopefully your courage will inspire others with similar problems to be as determined to conquer them as you are.
Hi Nick and all,
It takes alot of courage to admit a problem like that, not just in private but more so in the public eye.
I admire your bravery Nick and I really hope you receive the help and work through it with all your family, friends and fans around you.
My thoughts are with you and Tressa at this time.
MsV, Plymouth, Devon, UK
I don't know if Nick will ever read this, but I wanted to add my message to the long line of support he has from his fanbase. I am a big fan of Nick through "Buffy", I think he created a whole person in Xander that everyone can relate to, because everyone is the Zeppo at some point in their life. I get the feeling that although he is a fantastic actor, Xander is a part of who he is, an integral part of Nick Brendon. And for that much, every "Buffy" fan knows, loves, and respects him, because for 8 years we watched that part of him grow.
I suppose I should mention I come from a long line of alcoholics. My Gran died of liver poisoning, as a direct result of alcohol abuse, an abuse that spanned over decades. My Aunt killed herself when she was drunk 1 month later, New Year's Eve, ironically, a choice I'm certain she wouldn't have made if she was sober. Everyday the pain renews itself when I look at her picture, see the smile on her face. For the longest time I refused to go near even the shops that sold alcohol, which was difficult, and I became a recluse, not going out with my friends because, at my age, it's normal to drink, accepted even, huge amounts of alcohol. It took time, just over 2 1/2 years, to realise I was stronger than them, I understood the risks you take when you drink to get drunk, not to enjoy the taste. I am getting better, accepting that sometime it's the need and desperation for oblivion thats the real disease, not the liquid in the bottle that provides it.
Nick - if your family is anything like your fanbase, you have a loyal and strong base, one that will help you fight every step of the way. I can guess if they could, they would banish your demons for you, but it's your fight. Love your life, breathe deep and fight hard. Enjoy the love thats felt for you all around the world. You can win, you will win.
Love to you and yours,
Nicki Stensland (19)
Scotland
Dear Nick,
As someone with their own alcohol problem, I know how hard it is just to realize and admit you have a problem to begin with. Now that you are seeking treatment you are truly ahead of the game, although I'm sure it doesn't feel like it. I wish you the best of luck. You and your family are in my prayers.
Nick,
This is the best thing for you and your family.
All my good wishes to you at this very difficult time.
Also as a fan I want to see you shine in your career - alcoholism does not help with this wish of mine.
May the Gods grace you with their wisdom.
N-
Xander Harris, for 7 seasons, was always the sort of bumbling, out of place, comic-relief sidekick who never really was able to quite kick anyone's butt unless he was part-Hyena (and then he ate the principal!). It always seemed that Xander never got the glory. His one true love turned out to be gay, and his other a money-loving ex-demon who never quite got it until she was killed- yes, I'm leaving out Buffy because EVERYONE loved her. Despite his super-sidekickness, Xander always did have the love and respect of his many fans and truly was one of the most popular characters next to Spike and Buffy herself. Now, the man behind the lovable dork has entrusted what he is going through by standing up in front of his peers and fans in Cleveland. We have responded with prayers, sympathies, and support..things TRUE fans would honestly do.
Nicholas, you are a brave man to stand before a crowd and tell strangers a most private situation about yourself. Alcoholism is a disease that affects so many, and can sometimes turn in to a vicious demon not even the Slayer herself can kill. But you are man enough to stand up to it, and fight it before it really has any way of keeping you down. And with your family, friends, and us the fans..We know you- and your alter-ego Xander- will once and fore all slay one of the biggest evils there is. Thousands of prayers and well-wishing go your way. Stay strong, and never give up! Besides, when you're better we can all have a "PARTY IN MY EYESOCKET!! Everybody's invited!" :)
I just wanted to say how proud we all are of you Nick, facing this cannot be easy but you've shown yourself to be an incredibly strong person and you have to know you have the support of so many people worldwide.
Thank you for taking the time to come across to the UK to do the Fusion convention - it was much appreciated and I hope the response you got from your appearance will add to your own strength. You have our support in whatever you do. (oh, and in answer to the question you asked me at Fusion, if you come to Scotland you are more than welcome to stay at my place!)
My thoughts and love are with you and your family.
I think that Nick is so brave to seek help for his problem. I wish him all the best as he gets treatment!
My goodness Nick, just look at all these responces... I read this page in my class at college with a tear in my eye. The amount of people that are inspired by you is magnificent. I've been a fan of yours ever since I remember sitting down at my TV and watching the very first episode of Buffy. I was 11 at this time, now I am 18 and you continue to amaze me. You are an extremely strong person to admit this problem and even stronger to seek the help to overcome it. Not only are you helping yourself tremendously but you are helping your family and friends too. Not to mention all the fans that admire you for your will. We will be behind you all the way, and we love you so much! You have my best wishes at heart and I know you'll overcome this! <3
I really hope I see you around at a convention in the near future as I am yet to attend one, but I am going to Hush in October *hint hint* haha.
Love you dude. <3
I pray for you every night and I hope you will have the power to go througt this bad situation. I wish you all the best!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you Nick. I hope that you are more happier and healthier then you went in. I think that you getting help is great, and I think your a strong person for admitting that you have a problem and need help. Best wishes in your journey to become a healthier and happier person.
Hugs,
Christina
Dear mr Brendon,
my name is Darren and im 18 and live in the uk. i guess this message will be the same as the others, how proud we all are ect ect. but for me it runs a little deeper, you see my dad has bladder cancer, so i more than most know how it feels to see a loved one go through the agony of an illness. unfortunately for my dad, the cancer keeps coming back, but by you seeking treatment for your illness, you are sparring your family having to go through what me and mine do, ok it may not be cancer, but it could be something worse. so for that i am proud. i have a total of 3 idols, it seems a lot i know but they are all very unique, yet they all make me aspire to be a better person. the first 2 are Nathan fillion and Emma caulfield. and last but by no means least there is you. you are all such fantastic people, good honest people who fight for what you believe in. who always take the time to say hey to fans and who all ways show them respect. the 3 of you have touched my life in so many ways. it would be an honour to someday meet you all. i was hoping to make it to last months fusion event, but i didnt have the money. but fingers crossed there will be others.
you now, more than most know how it feels to rely on the love and support of family and friends, so just know that your arnt alone. not only do you have the love of a beautiful wife, and the support of family, but you are all so in the thoughts and prayers af people all over the world. i hope you live a long happy healthy life surrounded by the people who care. and i hope you continue to share your amazing talent with us for years to come. right, im getting all emotional so i apologise if a lot of that didn't make sense :)
thanks for being some one i can look up to and aspire to be like. thanks for being such a great person mr Brendon. thanks for just being you. but most of all, thanks for being my idol :) you will never know how much you have touched my life, i know im sounding more and more like obsessive stalker boy with every word so im bringing this message to a close. i hope you get better soon mr Brendon, and i send u all the love and best wishes, to you and your family. good luck in your life, and perhaps one day, who knows, our paths might cross :).
darren
I was very shocked when I finally found the time to get back on here and read about the convention to find out that Nick had an alcohol problem. I am also very proud of Nick for standing up in front of his many fans and admitting that he has this problem. That takes alot of guts that most of us don't have even with our own family. I have many family members who have alcohol or drug addictions and have for many years and we just can't get them to see this, so for you to acknowledge this and take the first steps on the road to recovery is amazing. I hope that you realize that your many fans will be praying for you and your family during this time and hope for a speedy recovery, although we all know that there is never a quicky recovery for this it's a long and sometimes very hard road but I have all the faith in you that you can do this. Even though I don't know you personally, from everything I have read about you from fans who have had the wonderful privilege of meeting you and some of your family members such as Tressa and Kelly, I believe that you have a very loving family who will help you along this road and that your strength of character will get you through this time. I will include you in my prayers every night and hope to be able to hear in the near future that you have learned to control this addiction. I wish that we (all of your many fans) could give you a kiss and hug and let you know how much we care about you and I hope that you know that we will be rooting you on every step of the way. You have always been an inspiration to the fans because of your overcoming your stuttering problem to make it in show business and I have no doubt that you can beat this too. Thank you for sharing this with us - you didn't have to because I believe that just because you are a star doesn't give us fans a right to know every little detail of your life- but you chose to share this with us and hopefully you will be an inspiration to your fans who have some kind of addiction problem so that they may get help also. I am very proud of you Nick and I'm sure that Tressa and the rest of your family are too. Hopefully, when this is over we will be able to see you in many future endeavors and your life will be nothing but fantastic because you are certainly one person who deserves only the best. You are quite a man, Nick.
Hey Nicky,
You are in my prayers and I hope you can get out of Rehab soon. I am so impressed by your courage, because most people wouldn't have the guts to admit they have a problem. Please get better soon so we can see you in some more movies. I loved your character in Celste In The City. It was a new side for you but it was an awsome perforumance. With all my prayers and Love!
Libby
Your fans are all so proud of you, Nick! And we're behind you 100%! Just focus on getting better. *nodnod*
You're a brave man...they say the first step is admitting you have a problem and you've already done that. Good luck! I know you'll pull through. You're fans want you to know how much we admire and support you. I still watch Buffy all the time. I was watching the bewitched, bothered and bewildered episode earlier today and it was making me laugh out loud. You're an incredible actor...so talented and you'll always be in the hearts and minds of Buffy fans around the world. Get help, get better and get a new project cause we miss you Nick
Good Luck Nick!
It was so brave of you to admit you had a problem. I know youll get over your addiction in no time even if no-one else does.
Dear Nick,
we really hope that you recover from this addiction, you are a strong person and a very talented actor - and so cute! You deserve all the best things in life and remember that all your fans will support you and respect you always, We find you lovable! Good luck...
Mandy & Mia xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hey Nick,
Just been to Fusion and noticed how much better you looked in yourself. Whatever it is you're doing, is definitely working and inspiring to myself.
If you remember me then you'll know what I'm talking about.
Keep up the good work mate, I think the world of you so take care of yourself and maybe we'll see each other again in the future.
Love Always,
The Scorchster xx
My thoughts and best wishes are with you Nick. I know that your strength, courage and support from those who you love will get you through.
Take care and remember that your fans will always love you and support you no matter what. Go get 'em tiger. . . .
Dear Nicky:
This is my second note letting you know that I am praying for you. I hope I don't sound repetitive. I am not an alcoholic, but I do get very depressed and I am surrounded by the business. I know it gets really hard to keep up with everything and before you know it, your are constantly holding a drink because it is being offered to you. I've been there and done that. I will pray for you always. Your talent has always amazed me. I know you will find your strength and hold onto it as you pull yourself through this unbelievable time.. Just stay close to the people you love and listen to them. You need them and THEY NEED YOU. We the fans will always love the Nicky of Buffy. Your wife and family will always love the Nicky who is not perfect but is a good man. Come to New York...There is a lot more work, less drinking and a lot more laughs than in LA. The NY acting community would be honored to have you. But first, feel better. Stay close to your wife- she loves you no matter what. Ask God for help whenever you need help-especially when dealing with idiots and don't forget to flush because your crap will stay if you let it. God Bless You.. All my respect, Charlie
Hey Nicky ;)
I'm just impressed by your courage, and I really think of you each day, so it can make it easier for you. I learn so much with you during this seven years of Buffy, you've been here for us during this time and now it's our time to be here for you.
Romain - a frenchy fan :)
GO NICK!
The hardest thing for anyone is to addmit they have a problem, guess what.. you tackled the hard part and the rest should be a peice of cake.
No one is perfect, so smile your way to recovery while we (your fans) cheer you on!
When I hear the new, i was really surprise, why did nick become like that? Then i heard he wanted to stop this problem... And I cheer up! Bravo Nick, tu es le meilleur... Bonne chance
Yannick, un de tes nombreux fans français...
Enormes kiss
Nick,
As the child of an alcoholic I know how devistating this can be on a family if left unchecked. I know it takes great courage to admit that the problem exists and an equal amount of determination to see it through to the other side. Congratulations. You should be proud of yourself.
Both you and your wife will be in my prayers.
Christene
Dear Nick, I hope you can get through this and come out smiling.
You are a strong and courageous person, and you have so much love and support from those around you.
I met you last week at Fusion and you were so upbeat and cheerful - I wish you happiness and I'm just one of the millions of people who will be behind you all the way.
"Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee"
Pat
I've admired Nick for years; for his acting, his humor, and overcoming stuttering (something I still do when I'm nervous or scared. It's mortifying.)
Now I have something else to add to the list - the honesty and courage he's shown in taking steps to take care of himself and be healthy and whole *for* himself and his loved ones.
May you have strength and success; best wishes and love to you and your family.
~ Kristina
Nick, the road from here may not be smooth but you will never have to walk it alone. Wishing you and your loved ones all the best and all the added strength strangers on the internet can bring. Canada loves you, too.
I know you have to be going through some rough times right about now, but You will pull through it.You are extremely brave to admit that you have this disease, and I along with all of the "Real World" Scoobies have your back.Take Care, Best Wishes Always.
Nick is doing the right thing for his life. My father had alcohol problem... he died because of it, but before this... he managed to destroy all that someone could have: his job, family, friends... and his mind. I feel proud of Nick because he admited what he had and find help... want help. Good luck!
Hey there Nick,
Your a strong person who is facing some daunting tasks, I commend you on your choice to seek treatment. I hold you and your family in my prayers.
hope u and ur family pull through what must be a hard time all the best nick
Nick: On behalf of myself and my friends, I wish you luck and hope you know you have the support of many people around the world. It takes a lot of nerve to admit to this sort of problem, but we all know you will get through it. Our thoughts are with you.
Alcoholism is a hard master and we are very proud of you for making a decision to do whatever it takes to enable yourself to live clean and sober.
We are identical twins and we know what alcoholism can do to a person and the impact it has on family life first hand.
Nick, you and your family are in our prayers. Please consider yourself hugged!
Nick, I'm sorry to hear about your disease but I'm glad to hear that you're seeking treatment. All the best to you and your family.
And, at the risk of sounding more cliche, but meaning every word of it, hang in there, man, because you? Totally rock.
Greetings from Hungary, Nick! I don't know what to say that wouldn't sound silly or intrusive, so I'll just say best of luck ! Hope to hear better news next time around, take care.
Best of luck, Nicky... You've conquered so much in your early life to get where you are today, we know you're going to jump this hurdle and get right back up on your Snoopy-dancin' feet. England loves you, man.
good luck to you nick, i loved you in buffy and we all know that you will overcome that disease.
take care of you
Good luck to you, Nick. I know you'll be fine because you had the courage to recognize that you have a disease. My prayers are with you.
If you read this, I know that you can get past this disease. May the Winds bring you joy and hope, Nick. Blessed Be.
"Remember one thing, for every dark night, there is a bright day ahead of that. So no matter how hard it gets, stick your chest out, keep your head up, and handle it." --2Pac
Caelwynn
---formerly The Vampyre Quirinus
Nick...what can I say outside of the fact that I'm shocked. I am, however, extremely proud of you for stepping forward, admitting your problem and actively seeking help for it. You're a great actor and I would imagine a pretty cool guy, and I wish you nothing but the best. All the luck to you in rehab and I hope to see you tackling another acting prject soon. Get well quick, buddy!
I remember you and your brother when I used to live in L.A. Kelly and I used to hang out a lot. I developed a drug and alcohol problem and had to get out of L.A. to sort out my problems. I feel you.
I was just looking at your wedding photos in InStyle Magazine. Remember those good times - good friends - family - people who love you and will support you. That's what matters. Good Luck and take care Nick.
Nick,
You've come so far and done so much. Be kind to yourself as you face this new chapter. You've given us all so many smiles, I hope you know we are all pulling for you in this!
Very best wishes and hugs,
Elizabeth
Dear Nick,
Only recently did I find out about you taking this amazing step. My dad has become increasingly ill due to alcohol problems, and he never bothered to seek any form of help. But you have, and I am so glad, as a talent such as yours should never go to waste. You are a wonderfull man and a brilliant actor, never forget it!
My thoughts are with you and your family, may you all be safe and happy.
My love always,
Laura
Nick-
As someone with a significant pop-culture influence such as yourself must realize, this announcement will help many who are struggling with this same problem to open up about it and seek treatment. Thank you for taking care of yourself and, in the process, helping to take care of others.
Good luck.
Dan
nick
good luck with the treatment. we are all here to support you! dont give up!! you can do it!! we are all very proud of you for facing your problems ^_^
natalie
Dear Nick
I don't normally 'post' messages on these boards but felt compelled to do so after seeing you at Fusion.
Having had several friends suffer from alcoholism, I am so pleased you have found the courage to seek necessary treatment.
I've always been so impressed by your performance in Buffy and was amazed to hear you say much of your acting was done after a heavy drinking session. This just goes to prove what an amazing talent you have.
I wish you all the best with your treatment.
Love and best wishes Karen x
Hi Nick
I just met you at Fusion this weekend, and like many there, thought it very brave of you to admit to this problem to a hall full of strangers.
I am sure it has helped many people with the same problem, that you were willing to speak about it.
We are all rooting for you!
Love from Joya
Good going Nick I am so proud of you I've been a fan of yours since I first saw BTVS. I'm happy for you for being a true man and getting help with your issues.
Good for you, Nick! When you're having a tough time, try to remember all the people you've never even met who are keeping you in their thoughts and wishing you well. You have brought us a lot of joy and laughter.
Best of luck with your recovery and in your career.
Love and good wishes,
Vanessa
xoxox
When I met you in Brighton last year at a convention in August I was going through a really terrible time in my life.
It really picked me up getting the chance to meet you - someone who has brought me so much pleasure and someone who I know will always continue to do so.
It was wonderful to meet you in person and be lucky enough to find out that you are even nicer than your character.
What you are going through at the moment must seem unbearable but believe me from experience, the awful things that happen as you go through life make you appreciate the good all the more.
Have faith in yourself and all you do because you are a good person Nick.
You are brave, you are talented and you are being wished well by so many people who love and care about you.
Vicky xxxxxx
Hey Nick.
Dropping a line from the land down under just to let you know we are all thinking of you. You're incredibly strong and brave in making this decision, as everyone will no doubt tell you, so just know you'll get through it, because you've got a hell of a back-up team on your side.
All the best. Looking forward to seeing you back, happy, healthy, rested and rejuvenated. Keep on keepin' on, Nick! Good luck!
Dear Nick,
I was lucky enough to come accross a new show on the WB network called, well, you know...The stories were amazing and the men and women from the makeup department certainly earned their paychecks, but it was the character Xander Harris, full of light and humor and loyalty, that made me an uber-fan if you will. You seemed to play the role with such ease, as if you and he were one in the same and I found out by seeing and reading interviews, that you two, while different, are very much the same. You are hilarious. You are strong. You are genuine. You are the real deal. Infact, while at the risk of sounding a bit stalkerish (dont worry, not the case, just a big fan), you were my first real celebrity crush. For 7 years, I grew up watching you and the rest of the Scoobies, eagerly awaiting the next episode, while at the same time being freaked out wondering "are they going to kill off someone this week?!?!" When Xander's eye was "replaced" with a "pirates" patch, I cringed, and let out a "holy crap!", but as the rest of the show went on, Xander kept going. He pressed on and didn't let it get in the way of the big picture. Although your problem at hand is no doubt a somewhat dark time in your life, I know you, just like the character you played, will get through this. Over the years, watching you and the Scoobies got me (and I'm sure other fans) through some tough times, and for that I thank you. As you are going through a tough time yourself right now, you have my prayers as well as those of so many other fans. I know we all wish you a speedy, healthy and full recovery. Thanks for the laughs, the tears and the best 7 years television has ever seen. God Bless. :)
i just wanted to let nick know that me and my sister are thinking of you and wish you the best of luck for battling this disease,we cant wait to see more of you over here in the uk.
we will keep you in our prayers always
take care
we love u nick
charlotte and lucy
I heard this news last week when it was first announced on this website, and, well, I really can't put into words how I felt. It was such a shock, but at the same time I felt extremely impressed that you've been able to share this very private matter. It can't be easy to live your life so very publicly, but you were right when you said that Buffy fans are very caring and supportive, but please remember that you inspire this in us. You make us WANT to care. I want to say a huge thank you for everything you did at the 'Fusion' convention in Blackpool this weekend, you have no idea how much it meant to have you attend when you're obviously going through something so major. I had expected some kind of announcement to say that you were unable to attend, but it takes a lot of dedication to interrupt something so crucial in order to make other people happy. You were so busy at the weekend, signing thousands of items and posing for numerous pictures, as well as keeping everyone so entertained while you were on stage. It was so touching to see you so emotional and modest at the closing ceremony, like you honestly couldn't believe that the huge cheers and applause weren't deserved, but you should know that everyone in the room felt like you had deserved it. The weekend was really a huge highlight of my year - maybe even my life - and I'm so grateful to you for it.
All the love, support and best wishes in the world to you.
Lysa
As a long time viewer in Russia (yes, we get it in Moscow, possibly illegally) may I send all my love and wish Nick all the best for the future. Remember, you have friends around the world who love and care about you.
Hi Nick,
I've read all the messages here, and I've got a tear in my eye to see just how much everyone cares for you. Although you probably won't remember, I had the pleasure to work with you last year in Brighton, and I came away truly impressed with your professionalism and the caring nature you showed to both the attendees and the staff working with you. When I saw the announcement last week, I was sad, relieved and proud all at the same time - but having seen you this past weekend, I'm just happy to see you looking so happy. I wish you all the best in this, as I'm sure it's not going to be easy - but remember you have lots of love and support behind you!
Good luck!
Kxxx
I love you Nick REALLY!!!!!!!! and you are smart, strong,handsome and you're the one and only best actor you can get through it trust me you can ask your fans if you dont believe me. We dont have to know you to see that you can get out of your problem. Everybody loves you Nick you have all the support you need
Dear Nick,
I will keep you in my prayers and hope for the best for you. You are a good man for coming forth with this news. I wish you only the best on your journey.
Nick,
My fiance and I are huge fans, and when I told him about you getting help, it boosted his own confidence in his own sobriety. He has been sober for a little over 2 months, and was close to breaking down. It is a struggle, but we have faith in you. Thanks for letting the fans know, because you have helped some of us by doing so. We love you.
Hey Nick,
I can not tell you how proud I am of you right now! I wish you all the best and I know that you are going to be okay! It's not going to be easy, but I know you can do this! I really admire you for being so open and honest about it and admitting (mostly to yourself) that you have a problem! Not everyone is this strong! Because of this I look up to you even more and just know that everyone supports you 110% I hope you get better soon! :-)
hey Nicholas, well done for comming out about the alcholo problem, thats very brave, most people don't.
Am from Scotland and ive been a big fan of Buffy since it started and i watch the repeats (re-runs) every chance i get, i think you did a really really great job of playing Xander, since i was young i have always wanted 2 become and actor and hopefully one day i will, but good luck and hope u recover soon and get back on tv, bye
Lieber Nick,
ich wünsche dir alles gute und glaube ganz fest an dich!!! Du wirst es schaffen und aus dieser Hölle entfliehen! Ich denke an dich und drücke dir die Daumen, dass du es ganz bald geschafft hast!!!
Wir lieben dich alle!!!!
My granddaughter and I met you at the Secaucus convention. We wanted to let you know that you are in our prayers and that we both respect the tremendous courage it takes to deal with this problem. You are not alone in your fight for a return to health and I personally will never forget all the smiles you brought to my granddaughter. I've never seen her happier. Thank you for being the talent you are and for the tremendous courage you are showing everyone who cares about you.
Nick,
I'm very proud of you, and I hope things work out ok. Thank you for coming to the Fusion convention as well. All my love xxx
My heart felt wishes go out to Nick too. A fellow Buffy friend had emailed me the news and I was stunned. My kids father died from his addiction(drugs) and has left me to raise our 2 kids alone.
To hear that Nick announced this news out in the open, on his own,as in not by a press release, shows such guts. One that should help him in his darkest days.
This will be a life long battle, but with family, freinds and his own strong will ( over comming his stuttering shows that there is ALOT of will there) he will prevail.
Our wishes ( and I read all of them, brought tears to my eyes) we hope will help, so some day down the road we can see the talented Mr. Brendon again. With lots of Love from Worcester ,Ma
Dear Nicky,
I'm Kristy, i'm 16 and i'm from Sydney. I've been a big fan since the start of Buffy, and will always be. I just wanted to say that I admire your strength and your courage to face your problems and share them with your fans. The fact that you admitted to having a problem only makes me even prouder to be such a big fan of you. You are such an inspiration to all of us. Just remember that we're all behind you =] I wish you a swift recovery and all the best for the future.
- Kristy
Nicholas,
You are showing true courage to face your problem head on.This is something Zanderwould have done.I know he's just a character ,you play:but,your personal true strength shone through.God Bless ! Take Care.
Blessed Be!!
Paula
All the best to you, Nick, and to your family. You are doing a brave and wonderful thing. My prayers and support are with you.
Gerry
Just wanted to add my best wishes here, and send all positive and healing energies to you as you work through all this.
I have every faith in the world you can do this, as does everyone here. And when it seems like you can't anymore, please remember we're all here supporting you through it all.
Take good care.
Nick I am so proud. I want to say that you are in my prayers and I am constantly thinking of you and wishing you good luck. Remember that you have so many fans who support you and have you in their prayers, we love you Nick and cant wait until your better and on our TV's again!
I think ur so brave- particually to tell the world, and not hide behind ur problems. We all look up to and admire you and you will always be remembered as the best of Buffy. I wish you the best of luck and cant wait to hear of your recovery.
I want Nick to know that the first step is admitting you have a problem. It was very brave of you to admit this. I hope everything goes great for you. Your in my heart and prayers!!!! Love ya lots
Wishing you well, Nick! Hang in there buddy, you will get through it soon enough, and be back on our screens again for us to ogle at once more :)
My thoughts are well and truly with you on your journey!
I'm sure it was very difficult for you to admitt that you have a problem, especially being someone in the public eye and under constant scruttany. But know that you not only have the family you were blessed with for support, you also have the family you helped create. And we are all behind you in this. So on days when it seems a bit harder, think of the larger family you have holding your hand and know you CAN get through this...we have faith in you!
I'm so proud that my favorite Scooby, Xander, has taken such positive action for such a negative problem.
Nick, you deserve any and all good that comes your way in life, and I hope this is less difficult for you because of all our support. If us fans can help in any small way to ease your recovery, then that makes me smile. (As you have so many times as Xander)
Thank you so much for your years entertaining us as Xander. I really hope we'll see him again soon.
Much love and support,
Tari
Hi Nicky,
I'm Linda, and I live in Ireland. It's where I was born, and I've never actually been to America. We have a great big nothing in common, but you've still touched my life in a positive way.
I watched all seven seasons of Buffy, and I paid very close attention to your character on the show - partly because your talent for acting and comic timing are incredible, and partly because I lust after your body something terrible. I giggled at Xander's reaction to Owen in "Never Kill a Boy on the First Date". I watched in awe as you moved effortlessly from comedy centric to heartbroken to hero of the hour in "Prophesy Girl". I laughed out loud during "Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered" and "The Zeppo", and shuddered with fear during "The Wish". I watched you bring what could have been a stale, samey character to life week after week for all seven seasons, watching you act through all silent episodes, funny episodes, deeply tragic episodes and even musical episodes. And you made it look easy.
And I got to know you. I read your interviews. I saw how dedicated you were to helping people who stutter. I heard story after story from people who were lucky enough to have met you or have received a letter or email from you. They all said the same thing. You were friendly, you were charming, you were sweet, you made them feel like a friend.
It has to be true, because I've never met or even written to you and you've made me feel like a friend. You've always treated your fans with respect, and I think I speak for all of us when I say that we have the greatest of repect for you - now more than ever.
I won't go into personal details here, but I know that alcholism is a horrible thing to deal with. I wish I had the words to tell you how proud I am that you have chosen not only to face that monster and fight it, but to do it all in the public eye. I have every faith that you will win this battle, and I look forward to a time when you will be well again.
So in the meantime, when you're feeling down, just remember that there's a woman in over here in Ireland still lusting after you're body seven years later, still keeping her autographed photo of you in pride of place on her wall, and wishing you and your beautiful wife (sob!) love, health and every happiness there is.
Lots of love,
Linda_Delurked
Dublin
Ireland
Nick,
My husband and I both meet regularly with a group of friends who prefer to remain anonymous. We celebrate the process of your recovery.
We've followed and been delighted with your career. You've only begun to make your impact on us all.
We love you and wish you well in your recovery.
I think it's really great that Nick accepted his problem, prooves me again that he is a truly good person ;)
Go Nick! Hopefully you will be better soon. Think of all the people who support you.
You're in my prayers.
The first step is admitting you have a problem. You can get through this and We (the fans) are behind you!
famous or not it takes a big person to admit they have a problem and do something about maybe even more so to tell the world you have a problem congrats and good luck!
I think that Nick is really brave to admit to the problem and to face it and deal with it. He is in my prayers and I really hope he gets better soon. Nick if u read this I just want you to know that all the fans back you 100% and I wish you lots of luck! Love Crystalxxxx
Hey,
I just wanted to say that i have saw what addiction can do to a person from a young age, due to my brothers. And even more recently, seen the process of recovery. I just want to say that seeking the help and working to change the situation will change your life and definetely for the better. It will not be an easy process, but it takes a strong and brave person to even admit to the problem as well as get help for it. And in the end you will come out of it even stronger. The people you love the most will stand by you and will be more proud than ever when you overcome your problem. So all i really wanted to say is Good Luck, you are a very brave person and i wish you all the best.
Joanne
Nick!
The first step to become healthy is to realize that you are ill. And you did that. I'll think of you and your family and I wish you all the best!
Your Michaela from Germany
Just wanted to say good luck to Nick, and that im sure he will be able to get over this hurdle. As you can see all your fans are behind you and i wish you all the best for the future.
Half the battle with an addiction is in accepting you have a battle to fight Nick. Not everybody has the strength to do that. Probably won't feel like it yet but you are half way to conquering this problem already.
All the best mate,
Kaine.
Good luck to you Nick from the many fans you have in Australia. BtVS is a huge cult hit here and the humour of Xander, in particular, tickled the funny bones of Australians. The warmth and humour you brought to that character gives you a special place in many fans hearts. We wish you well and hope to see you down here some day.
Warm wishes from Oz
Hang in there nick you can get through this.you ave already made a huge first step and all the fans out there from across the world over you love and support!
I am so proud of nick and my heart goes out to him. He has so much courage for seeking the help he needs and for realizing that he had a problem, i've grown up with a lot of my family members including a couple of close family members who have been either alchohol abusers or victims of alchohol abusers. I am so proud of nick for getting the help he needs, that takes real guts. And if only more people would realize that they have problems the world would be a much better place. Nick for you seeking the help that you need for your alchoholism you are my hero and will remain my hero for the rest of my life. Good luck fighting your demons, and i hope and know you will come out on top. you are in my prayers
sincerly,
Christina M. Snyder
P.S.: I am so proud of you
Dear Nicholas,
OMGosh I was so sorry to hear that you have an addiction to alcohol. However, I am so proud of you for taking that next step to get help.
I know it must not have been an easy thing for you to do. Please stay strong and give all of your cares to God. He will help you get through this. I know that you can overcome this addiction and lead a clean, healthy life.
You and your family are in my prayers.
God Bless You Always Nicholas!!!!
Your friend and fan,
Cheri
Nick,
You've been my hero since the first time I heard about you overcoming your stutter so you could pursue your acting career. And now, you're still my hero and you've had a big influence on my life. I just wanted you to know, like the many others here, that I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
It's a brave thing you've done and I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong, we're all here for you.
- Sarah
Goodluck with your battle, I wish you the best. I hope that you are able to concure your demons.
Nick You gave me hope in my bad times!
You said lots of times : NEVER GIVE UP!
I Learned from you and would like to say
the following to you:
Nick NERVER GIVE UP!
You really very often help me! really
You shown me that i can be someone spezial too! Nick whitout you youre words I would already long have given hope up..
I wish you the best...
Nick you are someone spezial....
NEVER GIVE UP HOPE....
sorry for my bad english...
youre ethan
Obviously I'm not the first person to wish you well and applaud you for the courage to seek help. No , not the first but still feeling the need to let you know how I feel. You have touched so many lives through your work, more than you could possibly know. If the love of your fans could reach out and bear you up through the way you must go, be certain that you will again be soaring. Till then, God Bless.
Dear Nick,
My 7 year old little brother Joe has been at the St. Judes Childrens Hospital for over a year now. He is a cancer patient there. We watch Buffy DVD's EVERYDAY together. We call it our NB time (after your innitials). Nick, you are his favorite preson in the world. When he grows up he wants to be "just like Xander!" You are an inspiration to all your fans and through your work as an actor, have brought joy to countless people. Both of us wish you luck during this time. We both know you have the strength to overcome any speedbump. We are with you all the way!!
Dave & Joey
Dear Nick,
Having been married to a recovering alcoholic for almost 7 years, I can't stress enough how important recognizing your problem and addressing it is. You are doing an absolutely amazing thing for yourself and everyone around you. My now ex-husband failed to do that and it destroyed us. Don't let that happen to you and your loved ones. You seem like a genuinely good person so I wish you all the best with this. It won't always be easy...but it will forever be worth it. Because you are worth it.
Dear Nick, welcome to the family of AA/NA. Thank you for taking one of the hardest steps of all and admitting how out of control and unmanageble your life had become because of abuse. Just live your life one day at a time or 5 mintues at a time, just don't use no matter what and you will be good. I am proud to call you a brother in recovery- enjoy this wonderful path you are on, and gather all of the beautiful tools you will be given in Rehab, they will save your arse my dear! you will hear about getting a sponsor- and working your steps. be honest and truthful and you will make it dear! Just remember that you are so not alone in this battle, and you can't do it alone- nor do you have to anymore. Welcome home!
Having fought the disease of addiction myself I send my deepest prayers and best good will to Nick. I hope wholeheartedly that everything works out okay for him.
Good luck is all I can say. I've been there I know what it's like. Take your time and you'll get through it!
I WAS PARALYZED FROM MY NECK DOWN IN JULY 13 1982 AT AGE 22. NOW I'M 43 AND A SYSTEMS PROGRAMMER SO IF I COUD, I KNOW IN MY HEART THAT YOU CAN PULL YOUR LIFE BACK ON TOP WITH EASE.
GOOD LUJCK,
JIMMY
Nick, I quit drinking 3 years ago after 10 years of heavy drinking. I had slipped a couple times the 1st year when hanging out with old friends, but it has gotten much easier and I haven't drank at all now in over 2 years. I've found some new healthier hobbies now instead.
Drinking started out as fun, but ended up feeding my depressive side over the years with fewer highs, and interfered with work and life.
I feel so much better now physically and mentally, and am happier than I've ever been.
I'm proud of you man. You are not alone Nick.
good luck nick. just stay strong and remember that all these people love you! you and your family are in my prayers.
After watching Buffy for six years I didn't know much about Nick the actor.I must say you are very brave to make your problem public and seek help.I wish you good luck.Stay strong.I'm proud of you,I guess we all are.
It's a brave thing you're doing, Nick. Stay strong and know that you are in our hearts and prayers.
Hope you overcome whatever had caused you to go down this path. Never lose sight of your dreams.
I had an addiction for many years , the love of my family and friends got me through, I am sure yours will do the same.Take one day at a time, if that is to much then do it by the hours, the minute.
Thinking of you , it's not easy, it's not meant to be, I'm 288 days now and not a day goes by without wanting to go back, but hey when I first started on this road it was every minute, then hour, now it's day, hopefully next it will be month then year. But I am alive and loving life. I have no doubt you can do the same. My problem wasn't drink it was drugs, I kidded myself on for years that I was ok. I respect and admire the fact that you have had done this. I wish you luck and success, and all the best that life has to offer - sober
Katz x x
Nick, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm extremely proud of Nick - being able to get help shows what a strong will he has. I wish him all the best of luck in the future.
Allow me to add my voice to the multitude. You took a very courageous step and I am glad that you did. It speaks much louder than an OD in front of an LA club.
Best wishes on your recovery, you have a long road ahead of you, but I am sure that you can make it happen. When you do, you will be an inspiration to us all.
Congrats on taking this first big step, Nick. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. All the best.
Heartfelt wishes for recovery. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You've taken the first step, so here's to success with the rest of them. Best of luck with this challenging journey.
Nicholas, there are a couple of monsters in real life and you're facing one of them right now. I wish you strength in rehab, but am sure you'll pull it off! I wish you all the best.
By the way: I think it shows great courage that you made the announcement in public and that you're facing this problem.
From a fan in the Netherlands.
It takes a strong person to admit they have a problem, and an even stronger one to do something about it.
Good luck, man.
Andrea
Don't give up, all your fans are behind you 110% No matter what happens or whatever you do we will support you and thank you for being such an inspiration to us for so many years.
Thank you Nick! And I hope everything is better for you soon,
Love Jenny
xxx
I am so proud of you Nick! You were strong enough to realize when you needed help, that makes you a great man. You will get through this. I and along with so so so many more fans believe in you. You are in my heart and my mind and I am wishing you the best.
I don't know if you come on here or not but I thought I would write you anyways.
You are a talented actor. I loved you in Buffy, I loved you in Pinata.(Seriously The special effects rocked!) I loved ya in Psycho Beach Party, actually you were the only reason I watched it :D and if I had the ABC Family channel I definately would have watched you in Celeste in the City. I heard it was an Awesome movie.
I hope to he good things from your recovery and to here you are back on another tv show or movie, cause I will definatly watch. Just need one :)
Love you. Take it easy.
Shannon OXOXOX
Hey Nick,
You are such an inspiration. Not to sound flip, but when I came here and found out that you made your announcement in public at a convention, the first thing that escaped my lips was "DUDE! WHAT BALLS!" Not eloquent, but heartfelt, nonetheless.
It's illustrative of a most important point: you already have the strength within yourself to attain all you desire.
Much love and good wishes,
Tracy
You know all the Buffy/Angel fanbase is behind you 100%. It will be hard, but we know you have the strength to do it. Fight the good fight,Nick!
Nicky,
I'm so proud that you were able to pull through and go into rehab. You're a strong one, you man you.
I lend my support and I wish you the best!
I'll keep you in my prayers!
Love yaaaa,
~sabrina *kisses*
Nick i love you. Being the biggest Buffy fan in the world it means so much that you are doing it for the fans. Speak to you soon mate.
Jonny
Nick, I wish you all the strenght in the world to overcome your problem.
I've been a fan of you ever since Xander Harris first walked into my screen and I've never been more proud of you.
Admitting that you have a problem takes so much courage and I just know that you will overcome this.
I hope your wife, family, friends and fans can help you in your recovery.
I'll be thinking of you and sending you all my love. Just keep in mind that your fans love you, we really do.
Best of luck.
Joyce
You are not that much older than my sons, Nick. You have brought me a lot of happiness through your role as Xander Harris.
I wish you the best of luck with your recovery.
It is very hard, but I know you can do it.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I just wanted to say that I hope that you have the strength to stay on track with what you have to do. It is a hard admission and a harder road to travel. Good luck and be strong.
As a Buffy fan who loved the character of Xander, and greatly admired Nicky's performances in that role, I would like to add my good wishes and prayers for Nick as he seeks to slay this particular demon.
God bless
Dear Nicky,
I´m so proud or being your fan. I wish you all the good luck. You´re very very brave.
Lots of love from Spain, you´re in my mind
Sonia
I would like to wish Nick all the luck in the world. It takes a strong person to admit they have a problem, but it takes an even stronger person to seek help for it. Stay strong mate, you'll do it, and remember all of your fans across the world are behind you. You can do it!
Nick,
You have been a role model to me for 7 years, since I was 12. I have never admired you more than I do now. Your show and your portrayl of Xander have helped me through the roughest times in my life. I just hope as your fans, our words of support, encouragement and love can do the same for you. I know how hard addiction is to overcome but you have the character to beat it. Best of luck and my thoughts are with you.
Love,
Lindsey
Man wow... Hearing this news has definitely been one of those ‘huh’ moments for me.
Mr. Brendon, the shear guts it took to stand up and say I need help. I wish I had had your courage to do what your doing now, back when I took my own path out of addiction. ( no.. I don’t recommend the hermetic shamanic journey... It goes to very... ‘interesting’ places)
I am not going to pretend the journey you are undertaking will be an easy one. In the years to come though, I believe you will find it is the one that helps you discover the peace and strength within; you probably can not even guess at this moment you encompass.
You are a remarkable individual and actor. I will take prayers with me, for you, this weekend to the sweat lodge.
Brightest Blessings
Garry
Mexico Mo.
Nicholas, I've been clean for five years, you can do it too. There may be days when you think you can't but take a deep breath and talk to someone who can help you get through that moment. In the greater scheme of things that is all it is, a moment in all your life. My thoughts are with you and your family. Amber.
Nicholas,
I hope everything works well for you. You are a wonderful actor. Good Luck remember we love you.
Laronda
Everyone has said this, but I will as well. I am very proud of Nick for doing this for him. My mother called me at school and I was depressed all day, crying and everything. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and him.
I have to say is Nick your a GREAT Actor and I think your great in 'Buffy the vampire slayer' That's the only show I know you from! Come to Winnipeg so you can meet your fans who lives here! That well be cool if you came here! It's spring here it beatuful here!
I llove you more than anything in the world! Come to Winnipeg some times and be with your fans in winipeg! The would be the best if you came here! Right now it's spring no more winter!
Love ya, --REALLY, OK? Be strong, and we are all supporting you!
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I missed the convention here in cleveland, and I am so sad to hear the news about Nick. I will be pulling for you Nick!!! Much love man!!
Hey Nick,
I got your autograph as a birthday present for a friend of mine at Pasadena last year. Even though you could not personalize it, you were very good hearted and genuine in saying so.
Just take that genuine nature in attacking this problem and you will lick it good!
You are in my prayers
Best of luck to you and your family! Stay humble. Get a sponser. Do the steps. Stay humble. Get a sponser. Do the steps. Stay humble.....you get the idea. Keep it in the day, one day at a time.
I know I don't know you, I've never even met you in my life, but I just really wanted to wish you well. I really hope you succeed in your treatment, I was saddened when I read about your problem. Good luck, hon. Keep your chin up.
As an older adult and not a fanatic fan of Buffy (intermittent viewer), I nonetheless found you to be an enhancement to the show. After seeing a few interviews, decided that you are probably a genuinely good guy. Admitting you have a problem, as many do, and seeking treatment shows that you are facing things as an adult. You can be proud of yourself and will learn about your strengths and weaknesses. This is something we all have to face and better now than later.
The first and hardest step is admitting and doing something about your problem. Good job and good luck. stay stong.
Nick,
It was incredibly brave of you to admit this to your fans, and to yourself. I wish you the best of luck in dealing with this, and I hope you have nothing but success in the future.
nick-accepting that there is a problem is the first step to dealing. stay strong, you know we are all here for you.
I just want to say to nick that it is a wonderful thing that you can admit that you have a disease and get treatment for it. Always remember to take one day at a time. I wish you well and take care of yourself. Just knowing that your family & friends are behind you and praying for you, is a comfort in itself.
Dear Nick!
First of all I have to say that Im very proud of you for doing rehab. But Im also sorry that you have to go through this, but sometimes life chooses a strange way. I wanted to let you know that you have all the support you need from your fans around the world but Im sure you already know this. Stay always as sweet as you are and I wish you best of everything from the bottom of my heart. Good luck! *hugs* Take care!
xoxo Nic from Germany
good for you Nick, it takes enormous strength to admit you need help and ask for it. We'll be thinking of you
I hope he finds what he need to stay sober. My thoughts is with him and his family. My father is a sober alcoholic since I was 19. And I really hope he finds what he needs to stay sober and to reconnect whit his family.
GOD, grant me the
Serenity
to accept the things
I cannot change
Courage
to change the
things I can
and the
Wisdom
to know the difference.
Jessica
Nick I am a recovered alcoholic myself it takes a lot of courage to take that first step just remember "One Day At A Time"
Life is full of twists and bends,
Best Wishes to Nick and his family. Just know that there are tons of people in your corner Nick, all of us BtVS fans will always have your back. Take care of business :)
Quitting any kind of addiction, be it alcohol, cigarettes (my personal demon), or any other kind of drug, takes a lot of determination and courage. Best wishes - stay strong.
Hang in there, Nick. We're all pulling for you. Kudos to you for making the choice to save your own life, as well as being public about it so others can hopefully benefit from your example. You rock.
Hey Nick,
So glad you are deciding to seek help. That in it's self is the biggest step of all. I wish you God speed in your recovery and all the best in your career. Thankyou for sharing your skills as a talented artist with all of your fans, whom I am proud to be one of.
God bless, James
Nick,
My boyfriend and I are thinking of you and your family and send our best wishes to all of you during this difficult time. You'll always be my favorite Scooby.
xoxo
Nick,
We love you and know you can do this. Stay Strong, Bud and we'll see you healthier and happier soon.
Robin
Hi Nick,
I just wanted to add my support and best wishes to the list. Admitting to having a problem so publicy took amazing courage. Im sure you have the strength to overcome this.
Good Luck
Becky
Have enjoyed your performance for many years on Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
As a physician, I know what a challenge this can be and the support you get from family and friends will sustain you.
Get well and stay well. You can do it!
I wish you the best of luck on your courageous journey to sobriety. You were always the heart and soul of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and my favorite character. You were also my favorite actor. You made it look so easy that you were not always given your due. I hope I see you soon in a movie or television series of your own. Yours is a talent too good to waste. Again, best of luck!
Stephanie
A fan in Boston
I want to add more to what I had said previously.
Nicky,
I really can't begin to tell you what you mean to me and to all of your fans. You have been my main source of happiness, laughter, and inspiration. For a while my life was rocky, but I looked to you. You taught me that there was nothing that I couldn't do. You gave me strength to get through it all, and you continue to inspire me everday.
When I read the statement on NickBrendon.com that you were seeking help, I was so proud. You're such a strong man. I know that you will come out of this on top. Just like you had told me, there is nothing that you cannot do. I send so much love, thoughts, and best wishes to you, Tressa, and your entire family.
Much love,
Tara Ripke
Good luck Nick! Our thoughts are with you for a thorough recovery. We love you!
Best Wishes for Nick & his family at this time
Karen (Glasgow,UK)
Hi Nick, I have never had the honor of meeting you. I am just another fan, but I wanted to add my good wishes to the list. I have always been impressed by you as an actor and as a man, and by admitting to your problems and seeking treatment you have shown yourself as even more impressive of a man.
May all of the gods and godesses smile upon you and help you through this tough time. May you find health, happiness and joy. We're all cheering you on and praying for you.
May your Darkest Blessings be turned to your Brightest Blessings!
Hi Nick.
I'm proud of your decision to seek treatment. I too am recovering, so I know what you're going through. Not to get too maudlin, but I gotta say, when I was going through the first few months, I watched a lot of "Buffy"...a lot. Sure it was always my favorite show, but Xander was a Hell of a lot funnier when I was sober!
Your fans love you, myself included. Take Care.
Wilson
Best wishes, Nick. Good luck!
When I was in Cleveland I met Nick for the second time. We'd met in Nashville and he remembered me because I'd been in a wheelchair and I sat at his table. This time when I saw him again I was walking, straight and proud. He told me how proud he was of me, and not to be afraid to sit down in that chair and "take a load off" when things got tough. Then he hugged me and took off in his limo for the airport.
Now I want to extend those same words to you [B]Nick[/B]. When I see you in Tampa I hope to see you standing tall and proud and not afraid to lean on someone or something when things get tough. Nicky I told you in Cleveland how proud I was of you but I can't say it enough. I know you'll get through this...you have the prayers of millions.
You kicked demon ass as a member of the Scoobie gang for seven years. Sometimes our personal demons are harder to fight, but if anyone can do it, you can.
Best of luck, Nick,
Margaret
God Bless you Nick, best of luck in everything you do, you have alot of people rooting for you.
Hi Nick,
I just wanted to tell you how much I admire you, for your courage and strength in going public with your illness. I am sure you are helping others to be brave and seek treatment too. I know this must not be easy, but I am confident you will succeed.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I look forward to seeing you in your next project, and a big thank you for all your hard work on Buffy too. You made those 7 years worth watching. Sorry I missed you on set, I did visit once during season 6, I had a meeting with Randy Erikson and I think you didn't have scenes that day...
Again, stay strong and be happy!
Kindest regards,
Christine
I wish him the best of luck - he's a great person, already speaking out for causes that are important to him, and I'm sure this will become one, too. Good luck, Nick, we all love you!
Nick, after watching you for seven seasons on "Buffy," I can't say I know you as a person, but I can definitely say I care about you. I'll be thinking of you, and you have my very best wishes.
Just wanted to stop by and lend my support and best wishes. It was very courageous to share this news with the public, and I am hoping that this bravery will carry you through a successful rehab treatment. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Amy
Chicago, IL
Nick, your courage and honesty is truly inspiring- my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Hey there,
I can only wish you all the best .. I have complete faith in you and I know that you will have a full recovery.
Tressa, hang tight.
You'll both be fine :)
Looking forward to your next project.
tj
Dear Nick,
I think you are such a talented actor and I always looked forward to seeing your character Xander on BtVS. You have such broad range for comedy and drama. Your acting made me laugh and cry (laugh mostly) because of your amazing talent.
You are such a strong person for realizing you have a dependency problem and for seeking help. I don't have any doubt that you will be able to conquer this issue. I know many people who are alcoholics. Some have overcome their alcoholism and are extremely happy and sadly the majority of others refuse to admit they have a problem and have ruined their lives and the lives of the people who care about them. You should listen to and lean on the people who love you; your friends, family and fans for support and strength to get you through this difficult time. You will be happy, successful and stronger than ever and you will find you never needed alchohol. Best of Luck! P.S. Your fans need to see you on a series on tv again. We miss you!
Hi, Nick. Sending you lots of healing vibes from Canada - you've taken a big step, and I'm glad that you have a support system to help you. You are in my thoughts. Warmest wishes to you and your family in this challenging time. You can do this!
Nick!
It took strength and courage to admit your problem so openly - it only shows that you are a person of great character and intergity. On behalf of my family - we wish you godspeed and hope for a sound recovery.
All the best, Nick. Hope you get yourself through this soon. Britain sends it's love.
Congratulations on the courage to admit a problem and dealing with it! All the best of luck in the tough time ahead.
It's a tough thing to hear someone as talented as you going through something this tough. I've been there. Hang in there. Remember, after every dark night there is bright dawn. And all those goofy AA adages really work. One day at a time man. As you can see, you have infinate support and concern from me and all your other fans.
Dear Nick,
Here's yet another fan behind you wishing you all the strength and solace in the world to recover from this.
You've already shown the courage to take the first and hardest step on this journey... that's why I'm sure you have it in you to pull through this.
It won't always be easy but most things worth attaining never are. Remember to take it one day, or hour, or even minute at a time if that's what it takes to get through the rough spots.
Of course, you have to pull through anyway because we all want to see you on our televisions again showing off those acting skills!
The best of luck to you, Nick!
I've been an enormous fan of yours, Nick...and I spend a good deal of time here. Rarely, however, will I actually make an appearance. In this case, though, I feel the need to respond.
The character of Xander is someone I always identified with greatly. On the surface, he didn't always appear to have much substance, but those who knew him knew the real deal. His heart and courage inspired those around him on the show...and it did the same for so many in real life, including me. Your honest and funny portrayal of that character gave him life; it made the "normal" guy someone special.
Though I've never met you, and probably never will (conventions would make me into a blithering fool), I feel as if you're my friend. That might sound vaguely stalker-y, but there it is. Your work has profoundly touched my life.
Let me offer you a little story:
My former brother-in-law is a recovering alcoholic. His disease cost him his marriage and (for a brief period) his two sons. Once he emerged from rehab, he resumed joint custody and rebuilt his life.
On St. Patrick's Day, 2002, tragedy struck our family when my sister was killed in an auto accident. Suddenly my brother-in-law's children became his sole responsibility. Not only did he have to deal with his own grief, he had to mute it in front of the kids, shouldering the emotional weight of 8 and 9 year olds who couldn't understand why their Mom was gone.
If ever there were a reason to seek comfort in the bottle, this would certainly fill the bill...but he didn't. He raises his two sons by himself, and they happen to be active and well-adjusted kids now.
The ignorant among us (none of whom post here, thank God) might spout off about addiction as a sign of weakness. Such people have never met my brother-in-law.
He is an alcoholic. He is also the strongest man I've ever known.
This too shall pass, Nick. You're going to fight every day, and you're going to win. For whatever it may be worth, this eternally grateful fan believes in you.
Beloved Nick,
You are a very brave, couragious and strong man, and we look up to you and admire you for that. I know I do. So many people choose the easy path of digging themselves deeper into this disease and not seek help, but it takes someone with strength and great will to choose the path that leads you to recovery. I know, because my older brother is a recovering alcoholic. It isnt an easy one, but I have so much faith that you'll make it. Just remember that we're all here for you, as well as your family. You are like an extention of our families, so in your time of need, I hope you think of us the same way and draw strength and love from that knowledge when things get tough. We love you and will ALWAYS be there for you.
I just wanted to wish you luck in your treatment. The brother of one of my best friends just entered a drug rehab, and he had the hardest time just telling his family and friends, I can't imagine how difficult it would be for someone who is known world wide to come forward and get treatment. I congratulate you for your courage, now you just have to take things one day at time.
I wish you the best of luck in dealing with your alcoholism. I've been a fan of yours since the first episode of Buffy. I just wanted to offer my support as thanks for all those years of wonderful entertainment.
Nick,
Here's wishing you the best in your treatment. It takes a lot of courage to do what your doing. Hope all goes well.
Take care,
Bart
I am so proud that you are getting the help you need long before it is to late like a lot of other stars . I know you will do it!Good Luck and Thank You for saying all th good stuff about us fans , we would not be as good with out great actors like you.
Nick:
There are no words to express what you must be going through...but know that your family loves you and wants the best for you.
Yes, you have millions of fans, but you only have one family. Cling to them in your time of need and LET them HELP you if you need it.
Take care of yourself for yourself. Know we fans love you and have you in our prayers. Hope to read good news about you soon!
LOVE and PRAYERS are coming your way.
LOVE, KELLEY IN Washington, PA!
Nick -
It takes true inner strength to face up to our problems and real courage to admit we need help in conquering them. I wish you the very best of luck in beating this challenge - please know your fans are rooting for you!
God bless!
(the "Send a message to Nick" feature didn't seem to be working, so decided to just post it here...hope that is ok)
Hello Nicholas,
I just heard the news about your rehab and I wanted to take a moment to send you a note to let you know you have yet another fan rooting for you.
I normally don't send fan mail, I've always figured that even if it does get read by the person it was meant for, it's gotta be kind of weird getting letters from people you don't know....yet feel that they know you. But when I read that you were encouraged by fan support I felt it would be worth doing. After the years of wonderful entertainment that you provided for me and others by portraying "Xander", I thought the least I could do is wish you well in your recovery.
It takes a lot of courage to admit that you have a problem and seek help for it, let alone come forward like this and talk to the public and fans about your situation.
I have been such a fan of the "Buffy/Angel-verse", that I try to support all of the actors/actresses from the shows in whatever else they do. Anything that any of you turn up in....I watch. (I've even helped create some of the campaigns trying to save "Angel") I just mention this so that you know you have a fan for life, and I know I'm not alone in hoping to see more great acting from you in the future!
Please take care of yourself....I wish you and your family all of the best,
Anna
I am so proud of Nick for being brave enough to admit he has a problem and taking steps to get help for it. My father also battles with alcoholism and his inability to accept it and get help for it prevents him from having a happy life. I am so glad that Nick is man enough to tell his fans and allow us to support him. He has given his fans so much just by playing a character and I hope we can give back to him through continued love and support.
Over the years you've brought us all so much entertainment and joy, I hope our well wishes help bring you though this difficult challenge. It takes courage to admit a problem, more courage to seek a solution, and perserverence to complete the journey. We're all with you.
Good On Ya Nick! That first step is the hardest. You've got friends and fans behind you.
Good luck!
As others have said, this is such a brave decision. First of all to take the step to treat this disease and second of all to announce it publicly.
As you can see, you have a lot of support from "out here". I hope you get the help you need. Admitting that there's a problem and doing something about it is a huge step in the right direction. An uncle of mine was a miserable, unhappy alcoholic. Since he sobered up, he's gotten married (nearly 20 years ago) and is happy with his life.
I wish you the same success and contentment with your family.
Take care.
Nick,
I am so proud of you for a) recognising that you have a problem and b) being willing to admit to it and seek help for it. I have no doubt that you have the strength and the will to fight this, and please know that your fans are behind you one hundred percent!
I'm a 50 year old "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" fan. I think Nick is great and his character Xander is one of my favorite characters from all of Jossverse. I am also a sober alcoholic...12 years sober. I am very proud of Nick. Alcohol truly is a demon, for some of us and a difficult demon to beat. Admitting it and going into treatment is a brave and heroic step. I know Nick can make it and will make it. You have all our support, Nick...
J. L. Hillhouse
[email protected]
May God bless you through this hard time. You have been an inspiration to many and I pray that you will come through this in one piece. Isaiah 40:31 says - "But those who trust the LORD will find new strength. They will be strong like eagles soaring upward on wings; they will walk and run without getting tired."
God Bless and Prayers
I can't imagine how hard it was to make it to this important step, but I'm hopeful that the strength Mr. Brandon has shown will carry him through.
It's been pointed out this is a life long struggle by wiser people than I. My hope is it's a victorious struggle made longer by beating drinking. I want to see his work for a long time.
Nick,
I just wanted to offer my support, I'd say more but others have got here first and so I echo all of the above. Hope things go well and that there is happy in your world.
Hugs
Kat
I can't add anything to what's been said already. Nick, you know you'll always have a solid fanbase who love and support you in everything you do.
It took a man with a lot of courage to announce something like that in such a public way. You have been a rolemodel to so many people as Xander and now, in being so brave, you are being an even better rolemodel as yourself.
Thinking and praying for you
Catherine
Scotland
I am sad to hear about your drinking problem but very happy that you admitted it and are looking for help. My best wishes to you and your family.
A fan from Spain.
¡Fuerza Nick!
I just wanted to send best wishes to Nick on his road to recovery, he has taken perhaps the most important step by admitting that he does indeed have a problem, and I hope that he knows that all of his fans are behind him and sending out "best wishes", "good lucks" and "happy vibes"...
Thank you. Like other who have posted I struggled with drinking myself. I ended up hurting several people very badly (emotionally, not physically) before I realized what it was doing to me. Just take it slowly and realize that it does take time. You have people supporting you and loving you and that makes all the difference. God Bless.
Nick -
As a fellow recovering alcoholic just wanted to wish you well. It sounds stupid, but the AA stuff really works and things do get better.
Remember - "keep coming back, it works if you work it"
Brad
Best of luck to Nick during his fight for sobriety. It's not easy, and it's continual, but I give him a lot of credit for coming forward and being open about it and getting help. I have known and lost too many people to alcohol addiction, and this is truly the best thing he could do. My thoughts and prayers are with him during this time.
To hear that Nick is in rehab and getting himself back to where he should be is fantastic news indeed, and it's damn good of him to be able to say what he did in a public forum. He's a guy with a lot of courage and I take my hat off to him and his family and friends!
Wow, I'm actually really surprised. Never would have guessed. Good luck, Nick!
I wish you all the best. Just know that you have alot of people who want you to succeed.
Good Luck Nick ! Bad things happen to good people but you'll get through this, you are strong and your fans are behind you !
I just wanted to add my prayers to those of others. Thanks for the 7 great years of Xander, and I'm hoping to see more of the character and you in the future.
Stick with the program. You're too talented to let alcohol ruin your future.
Nick,
as many before me have said, you're an inspiration! I don't know if you actually get to read this, but if you do ; you're very brave to admit your addiction and to seek help for it! Go for it and I'm positive that you will recover! I just know you will! All of us fans are backing you up! Even me overhere in The Netherlands!
You are a rolemodel and have touched many with your amazing acting......
We all support you 100% and hope for a good recovery! You can do it.
Good luck with everything that is on your path,
Stefan (Dutch fan)
Nick...
I've always believed that all of Xander's best qualities were those which you channelled to the character directly from yourself - you've just proved me right.
You've showed undoubted bravery and honesty by telling us all about your illness, and you've done so with your usual gentle dignity. You will be an inspiration for others who suffer - be strong for them and for yourself. I have no doubt that you will overcome this, and I send my very best wishes to you and your loved ones.
We all look forward to your return to our screens - but you'll remain in our hearts no matter where you are.
XXXXXX
Heck.... after stuttering, you should get through this without a problem. The only reason to be worried would be if you couldn't admit it.... which, obviously, isn't the case. Kick ass man.... get through it, and know you got a buttload of goofy fans pulling for both you and your next big gig. Not that you need a ton of goofy fans, but heck, can't hurt to have us, can it?
Wow. Just, wow.
Nick, you are a truly courageous individual. To stand in front of a large audience, and admit that you have an addiction... wow.
It's very inspiring to me, on a personal level.
Alcohol addiction is something that I've been wrestling with personally as of late.
I'm a classic binge drinker. It's no problem at all for me to go weeks -- or even months -- without taking a drink of alcohol. But once I start drinking, I don't stop. I CAN'T stop.
Over the last month or two, I've been asking myself if this is really a problem. Is it something I can address on my own? Am I really an alcoholic? Is it affecting my life? Is it hurting me?
I wouldn't call it denial, as I'm fully aware of the fact that I can't just have a beer or two. If I have two, I'm going to have three. If I have three, I'm going to have a fourth, and so on. But do I really have a problem that I can't handle on my own?
And ultimately, I end up blowing off the entire issue. It doesn't seem like I'm hurting myself or anyone else.
I just wanted you to know that, your situation has inspired me to take a closer look in the mirror. I'm not sure where things will go from here, but I realize that I need to have the courage to truly address my issues head-on.
I look forward to hearing about your progress. I understand that addiction is something that is very personal, and difficult to talk about, but your success in overcoming it is nothing to be ashamed of. And I have no doubt that you will succeed.
You have my support, and the best wishes of thousands of others. You have the bravery to admit that you have a problem in a public forum. I have no doubt that you have the strength to overcome.
Thank you SO much for being an inspiration to me!
Aaron
You are a brave soul to admit you need the help and seek it out. I wish you all the best in your recovery.
Good luck, Nick. I know you can overcome this, and I wish you the best of luck, in conquering this, and in your career.
Nick,
as a recovering alcoholic, i know the kind of strength and determination it takes to not only announce an addiction, but to take steps to overcome it. know that you are in my prayers.
kyri
Nick,
I wish you well. It was very brave to admit to the fact you sought treatment, especially to a room full of devoted fans! I can only add my best wishes to those that have gone before. You have a lot of people out in internet land that care a lot about you and wish you a full recovery and much happiness. I shall be thinking of you.
Hey Nick
Spent the last 5 minutes searching through the thesaurus for another way to say "We're rooting for you"- thought it sounded way corny. I gave up, of course. You haven’t, and we’re rooting for you. ("We" meaning everyone, especially my friends and me, who have posters of you plastered all over our houses).
Best of luck Nick.
First step is the hardest -- admitting there is a problem
Second was easier -- getting help.
Now just follow through.
Good luck and God Bless!!
I dont think I can say anything that hasn't been said. We all support Nick. All my thoughts are with Nick and his loved ones. Stay strong. We're all behind you.
Kia kaha (be strong). Well done for admitting to your problem, that is the first step. I have just been reading a biography of River Phoenix, and he was in denial for a long time that he had a drug problem. If he had admitted to it, maybe one of the most talented actors ever to grace the silver screen would still be on it today. You have a lot left to show us Nick, be strong, get through this, because we want to be seeing you on our screens for years and years to come. Good luck mate.
Nick!, I just wanted to say I've met you & think your a great guy, I love ya to bits :o) & I'm sure you will come out of this experience stronger, You have my respect **hugs**
Sad to hear the news but glad to see Nick has taken the first step in recovery. After giving to so many through his acting i hope people will take time to give something back.
Best wishes in getting over this Nick.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Nick. You are such a brave soul for admitting your problem, especially in public and seeking help for it. God bless you, you are truly an inspiration.
Louise xxx
Nick,
You have all of my support and confidence in this "hurdle". I found myself in similar circumstances a few years ago. It took a lot for me to admit my problem, but once I did I got help and I'm doing real good now. All my friends and family were fantastic and thats what gets you through it! It wont be easy, I'm sure you know, but stick in there buddy! I'll miss you at Fusion but it will be for a better cause! My very best wishes to you and your family!
Shmembo x
I met Nick for the second time this weekend at the Cleveland convention. I wish him all the luck, he is such a sweetie. I was being rushed in the line for autographs and he took the time to look at a picture I had of the two of us the first time I had met him. He remembered!!
Its good to see that Nick is brave enough to take a stand and confront it. Best wishes!
It's a long road ahead to recovery but one well worth taking.
I am so proud of Nick for taking this step to a better quality of life.
Never give up, never surrender!
just believe yourself! i'm so sure you can make it. Best wishes.
I have SO much respect for you Nick. We're all behind you 100%. When times get tough, just think of what it will be like when all of your fans cheer and celebrate along with you when you beat this. Think of the look that will be on Tressa's face when you beat this. We all love you in our own little ways.
Best wishes, my thoughts are with you.
Power to you.
"The first step is admitting it; the second is defeating it." Best wishes to Nick. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourself.
I think Nicks so brave to be able to admit it like that. with that courage, hes definatly going to pull threw. I just want to say how proud I am of him and that all his fans love him and support him no matter what.
Good Luck Nick
Good luck, Nick. You´ll make it.
That's a tough thing for him to admit so publicly but good for him! So much support coming his way and all the well wishes that he wins this battle soon!
I think it is so brave of you to do this. I was at the convention as well, and when I heard you say that you were doing this, I just thought of what an amazing person you are, for being so open and honest about it. It is the best thing you could do for yourself and your family. It’s a hard thing to do, and you are a wonderful and strong person for doing it. You have many fans behind you, and we all know you can do this!
My thoughts are with you Nicky!
Eva
My father suffered from the same thing. It's hard to over come, but if anyone can it's Nick. Nick you are strong and you have millions of fans,a family that loves you, and the will to do it. Good luck
You will be in my thoughts and prayers
Blessed be,
Renee
Dallas, Tx
I'm so proud of Nick for being so smart and seeking help, he is a talented, wonderful man with limitless potential and he should not throw away his life to drinking. He's just better than that. GOOD WORK NICK! You have the support and love from all your fans, we believe in you! xoxoxoxo
Good for him, I hope he gets through it ok.
Nick,
I am so proud of you... for many years you made me laugh and cry as Xander and now as I supported you then and still do with all your work I support you now because this is something that takes a lot of love and good warm fuzzies to deal with remember that all your fans are here for you and much respect to you and prayers for your family and friends thought this time.
Jill
Good luck nick! I wish you the best of luck...:)
What you are doing, Nick, takes courage and strength. You should be commended for taking this step.
I have an alcoholic father and step father, so I have seen how hard can be to beat. But you can do it.
You've already taken that first step. Hang in the there, mate.
Love and hugs from the land downunder....
Nick,
I named my cat Xander because I love your character so much on BTVS. I appreciate how much you do for your fans and that you haven't tried to distance yourself from buffy since its ended. I love that. You are so awesome! I watch reruns and buy the dvd's.
You are in my prayers!
Love Ya!
Elizabeth (Milwaukee, WI)
Nick,
You were always my favourite actor on BtVS, I am a big fan. Your great.
It takes a big heart to announce to the public that you have a problem.
I commend you on taking the first step to getting better, and I wish you all the best as you come to terms with life without alcohol.
I'm sure you will have the strength to come out of this a better person.
Stay strong
Oh Nicky! You best take good care of yourself! *Snaps fingers* You've got lots of fans that LOVE you and your work. Kick alcohol's *bleep* and come back to us healthy, strong, and as loveable as ever.
Dearest Nick
You may remember me from the David Boreanaz Event 2003 in the UK. I looked after you alot over the course of the weekend, and drove you to your hotel in the early hours of the Saturday morning its me Scully aka Jaime.
I would just like to say I'm so very proud of you that you have decided to take action about your alcohol intake. Just because you have this problem doesn't make anyone think any less of you. I know I still love you as I always have. I told you this last year that "your a star" and I totally mean that. I will see you this weekend as I will be attending a convention your appearing at. Look out for me while your there, I have missed you.
Good luck Nick sweetheart you can get through this, your strong and you can do it.
Scully
UK
Best Wishes Nick.
Be strong and you'll get over it in no time.
And it took a lot of courage to announce this news in front of people. So I congradulate you for that.
: )
Get well soon.
Gotta Blaze
Slayer's Hostage
I too was shocked when I heard the news at the Cleveland convention. As an addict myself, I know how incredibly difficult it can be to admit you need help - even more so to seek out that help. I have long considered Nick a role model, and to know that he has the strength and the courage to take this step - and to admit it publically - makes him even more of an inspiration to me. I have never been prouder to say I'm a fan. Best of luck with your recovery, Nick. You and your loved ones will be kept in my thoughts.
All my prayers and support are with you Nick at this time. Good luck! We love you!
I didn't think it was possible but I even admire you more now then I ever did before, Nick.
It takes a courageous and brave person to let us in on such a personal level. I wish you all the strength, love and hapiness in the world. God knows you deserve it.
Robert
I couldn't believe this. I wish you all the best of luck, and remember there are so many people pulling for you.
Be strong.
Great man you are Nicholas Brendon, to know you need help. Hope everything turns out ok and grand in the outcome.
Nick- Thank you for your art, and for sharing your bravery. I wish you strength, and wholeness. Blessings.
I, like many, was shocked to hear this news but even though we've never met I am SO proud of you Nicky for admitting you had a problem and deciding to do something about it! My heart goes out to you and you're in my thoughts and prayers. I'd say *hugs* but it's kinda hokey, so positive vibes your way.
We love you. We support you.
-Mariann
Im so proud of him as well. I think hes a great human being and I cant wait to see him in June.
God bless you, Nicky. May He give you the strenght you need to go through this very difficult time. You are a very brave person, and you have a good heart. Know that you have tons of people cheering you on. We love you. Good luck, and keep the faith.
This is a hard time in your life, but the fact you have the stregnth to face your demons shows true character. I wish you well and peace on your journey!
You are truly a courageous and talented person.
You are in my prayers. God bless.
Best of luck to you, Nick. Many thoughts and prayers are headed your way. Take gentle care.
You have mine, and I'm sure many other fans support. I'm wishing you the best. <3
Nick, you have to know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of a lot of people. Just take it slow and easy.
Good for Nick! Keep it up buddy.
Course if I had to work with Joss Whedon I'd need to drink too.
God grant you the serenity to accept the things you cannot change;
The courage to change the things you can;
And the wisdom to know the difference.
Amen.
May this be the first step of each day of the rest of your life. God bless.
Sending my love and support to Nicky and his family.
Nicky, myself, as well as many other fans who will hear about your brave steps all support you and you have all our wishes and best thoughts for you.
Good Luck Nick. We all believe in you and know you can do it!
Nick, you should be exceedingly proud of yourself. You're an extremely classy individual.
Best wishes to you and your family.
Nick,
Good luck on following your brave steps. You have many fans who support you and admire your courage, dedication, and persistance, not to mention your talent. I hope to see you in future projects before too long. All your fans are proud of you.
I wish Nick the best in his recovery. As an addict myself (I consider myself to be in remission), and although my addiction isn't to substances, it can be difficult to even realize you have a problem--especially when your problem may not manifest itself in obvious ways.
I'm the sort of person that unless you know my deepest personal issues you would have no idea that I'm an addict. Addiction has a stigma in society and it's very misunderstood but it's so common especially in a culture where we are encouraged to use things to escape our problems in life.
Recovery is a difficult road but it's made easier when you have the support of family and friends and I hope Nick has that strength to back him up. I'm proud he's admitted his weakness, turning it into a strength that can encourage others to do the same.
I have the strong belief that Nick can beat this thing and it shows just how couragous he is that he went public with it. Good luck to him!
I'm glad Nick's decided to seek help. That's the bravest thing anyone can do, to realize there's a problem and to work to stop it before it gets worse. He has my 100% admiration and support. My best wishes and prayers with Nick and his family and good thoughts towards a full recovery.
Nick,
I met you at the Meadowlands convention a few weeks back, in the lobby and elevator of the hotel, and later on the autograph line. You were such a nice, great, down-to-earth guy, and I wish you the best of luck. I've always admired how forthcoming you are about your personal life, and I know that you will be successful in your current battle.
Rob
Oh wow, i'm not really sure to say except that i support and i will be here all the way. My thoughts and prayers are with Nick and his family. I know he will get through this on top.
Amy
Nicky- Thank you for taking the time to come to Cleveland, much appreciated. I don't feel any actor should feel obligated to share what goes on in their private life- but hopefully it may be able to help some to know that even those who have only met you for a brief moment, care and do wish you the best. You have impacted so many lives, perhaps now we can just a little bit with our support for you = )
Take care kiddo-
<3 nina
p.s Thanks for the hug, but i noticed i got makeup on your shirt--SORRY!!
Nick,
I'm so glad that you are taking care of this problem. I was really shocked at the news, but more proud of you for admitting it. I have heard about so many people in hollywood choosing not to deal with their problems probablly because they are afraid of what people will think of them. I think you admitting you have a problem showed that you are not only brave and admirable, but an inspiration to all of us. I wish you loads of luck!!!
Melissa
I feel that it's not my place to be proud of someone I've never met (I'll leave that to his friends and family), but I'm so happy that Nick is dealing with this problem head on.
Best wishes to him and his family.
Nick,
I was shocked to hear this, but my prayers are with you. It's good your taking care of the problem now then later. I'll know you'll overcome this. Best Wishes and Hopes to you.
Good luck Nick. You'll be in my thoughts and meditations. What a brave step to take.
All my best wishes to Nick for a speedy and long-lasting recovery. The courage it took to take that step (and publicly too) is so admirable. That's why he's my boy and whatever he does, he's got the support of many!!
Good for Nick to first admit he had a problem and for seeking help for that problem. He has my full support and hope in beating this horrible disease.
I saw Nick at Cleveland as well and am just so proud that he has chosen to get help before things got really bad. I hope he gets better very soon and my best thoughts are with him. I am just so proud of him.
I was also at the Vulkon Convention in Cleveland, and just want to wish Nick well in his recovery and all of us in Cleveland are praying for him. You are a incredible person, and will do incredibale things. We look forward to seeing them all.
Nick,
I was just trying to get some information from your website that I wanted to write down when this news about you came on flashing in my face. There's a tear. I had to read it three times to really believe it. It seems like many people even the ones who are stars have regular problmes. I'm always proud and happy when people admit to these kinds of problems and seek help before it's too late. I believe it's never too late but the earlier the better. I personally like to be informed on your progress. Have faith in yourself and a smile on your face if you can cause I believe you'll make it through. We, the fans, will all be your strength.
Hugs and kisses! Kat
Alcoholism has profoundly affected my life, so I know what I'm talking about when I say getting treatment is the best gift Nick could ever give to himself, his family and his friends. I admire Nick for his honesty and bravery as he takes this huge step towards healing himself, and I wish him all the best in the world.
best wishes to Nick, I'm so glad that he has had the courage, strength and good sense to get help .
I too am praying for Nick. I wish him the best of luck. Alcoholism is hard to beat, as someone said, and he needs all the support he can get from his family and his fans. Look to God, Nick, and He'll help you through.
I love you Nick,
Ciana
Takes a very strong person to admit this problem and it takes a braver soul to seek treatment.
Best wishes Nick : )
~Miranda
I was at the con also. I am so happy for Nick that he has decided to make such a positive life change. He is a very brave man and my love and prayers are with him.
Nick,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tuff time. It took a lot of courage to make that announcment. I was at the convention and know that everyone there is behind you and wishes you well.
Emily
We love you Nick. You showed a lot of guts on Sunday when you shared this very private information. I was proud to bursting to hear that you were making such a positive life change!
My thoughts are with you and Tressa at this time.
Good for him. Alcoholism is a tough thing to deal with and it takes alot of strength to even admit and seek help for, thats a huge step in itself. My thoughts and prayers go out to him.
Good luck to ya Nick!
I am praying for nick and his family during this time. Good luck to you!
Good on Nick for admitting that he had a problem and that he's man enough to seek help with it. Shows courage
Good luck to Nick, it is a brave thing to admit and a big first step. Support and thoughts all the way!!!
I am also proud of Nick. He is such an amazing man who keeps on amazing me. His courage and heart inspires me so much and I thank him for that. I will send good thoughts his way and also keep him in my prayers.
Amen to that. I applaud him. Nick is an extremely strong person, and I admire him so much. He has my total support and just like Spring, my prayers.
I'm so proud of Nick. What a show of courage he made in Cleveland. He will remain in my prayers.
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